Vday?

Valentine’s Day is celebrated worldwide on 14th February. Valentine cards and Valentine gifts are an integral part of the Valentine celebrations. On this day people receive gifts from their loved one’s and give gifts to their loved one’s. Or just like in my case, I am announcing my baby that the gift will be late since it no longer available and needs to be ordered. So my option is just cuddle up in bed or couch, a bottle of wine, a warm blanket and watch a romantic movie at home. Valentine's Day is the perfect time to relax, refresh and romance. Here is a list of some of my favorites:
An Affair to Remember . An Officer and a Gentleman . Beauty and the Beast . Bull Durham . Casablanca . Dirty Dancing . Doctor Zhivago . The English Patient . Four Weddings and a Funeral . Ghost . Il Postino . Like Water for Chocolate . Love Story . Moonstruck . Mystic Pizza . Notting Hill . Out of Africa . The Piano . Pretty Woman . Prince of Tides . Return to Me . Runaway Bride . Same Time Next Year . Shakespeare in Love . Sleepless in Seattle . Some Kind of Wonderful . Titanic . The Way We Were . When Harry Met Sally . While You Were Sleeping . Wuthering Heights and You've Got Mail.

Care to share yours?

life...

life is just like dancing -
sometimes we lead, sometimes we follow;
don't worry about what we don't know
what is important -
we learn as we go along.

embrace each day with open arms;
savoring both victory and strife.
for only then one can know
the joy of life

life is full of "or"

fall in love or fall in hate; get inspired or be depressed; ace a test or flunk a class; make babies or make art; speak the truth or lie and cheat; dance on a table or sit in a corner.
life is divine chaos-embrace it, forgive yourself; breathe and just enjoy the ride.

snakes and ladders

just when you feel you have finally moved on from a relationship, especially a relationship that you've always dreamed and hoped for... a simple thing, so sudden will turn back the time and the memories just flashes in front of you -reminding you of love, hate, arguments, sweet nostalgia and nightmares. making you relive evry moment bringing you back from where you've started.. it's like a game of snakes and ladders.
the music you hear.
the place you've been.
the food you eat.
the bed you sleep.
all the things you've shared.
would snatch you back from the place you always wanna be but you cant be anymore because the one you are sharing "it" with has left you from 'something' else.
love truly does hurt...

phone gadgets

what is the best phone in the market? a lot would say different models and brands but i would say the best one will be the phone that's served its purpose-to call and be called. its been more than two years since i have been using my xda o2 mini and so far i am very much contented with it. i may have lost more than a dozen of styluses but what the heck, i just love this phone.
don't you ever notice that in the event of asking phone numbers from that hunk guy you've bumped into a coffee shop or that executive that you've smiled at inside the sauna or even that server in your favorite restaurant - will more often stare at your gadget while dictating those precious digits. Ive heard of stories from my friends that they sometimes get shy asking for numbers because of the phone they are using. wtf?! dude, its not the phone that will give that person the unforgettable night experience but YOU.
its hard to be gay in this metro. one needs to pamper and beautify oneself to be marketable, countless sit ups and weights lifting will serve as spotlights to those looking, work hard to bring home a decent pay to maintain that weekly (in my case, monthly) fashion allowance. maintenance to be seen on the right places and be seen with the right people.
its a good thing i am with my friends who don't care what i am wearing or eating or how i look or where we meet up for convergence. which boils down back to my topic...as long as you have the right phone-true friends are just a sms or ring away.

all over again

In our gay world, we need to set a standard and this translates to getting to know what type of gay man you're dealing with before asking him out. Does your prospect's personality match up with yours? What kind of gay man are you? Or better yet, what kind of gay man do you want to be with? If you've fallen head over heels for a guy you had a date with, met online or in any other situation, just be patient! Take your time getting to know him. Be sure not to panic if he doesn't call you on a daily basis or if you two aren't picking out china patterns after a week of romance. If you guys hit it off, chances are he's into you as much as you are into him, but any potential relationship will be much better off if you take it slow and get to know him. First impressions are great, but you can only get to know a person well after spending time with them. Who knows, he may turn out not to be the person you thought he was. On the other hand, he might just be the man of your dreams. Only time will tell. Patience is one of the hardest things to learn in life, especially while building relationships. It's known that gay relationships mature at an accelerated rate, often much faster than relationships between straight couples. Nonetheless, one thing heteros and homos have in common is the time it takes to find the right mate. Healing your heart impossible it may seem, To mend a broken heart... so many pieces to recover.. so many memories torn apart... I don’t know where to begin... or even how to describe... this feeling I have... that’s etched deep inside... there are so many things I want to give you ... so many things I want you to see... so many things I want you to feel, as I sit here patiently... patiently waiting ... for the right time to come... where your heart beats for me... and two hearts beat as one... so, with every flower I give you... and every letter I write... a new piece of your heart is unveiled... for me to hold tight... with every tear you shed... as I kiss them away... another distant memory... just faded away... as we hold hands together... and have those late night talks.. your heart will become one... and love’s journey, again, you shall walk.

bless me

rain. friends. smiles. dreams. sunshine. wind. blueskies. tears. words. reasons. people. love. life. cats. dogs. nature. music. ice cream. coffee. jeans. shirts. big sale discounts. bonuses. girls who like girls. boys who like girls (and boys). religion. faith. cable. big screen tv. microwave. tranportation. mirrors. ice tea. mango shakes. asian food. caucasians. dimples. fragrances. YOU.

in this busy world of ours, its nice to stop and just count my blessings.

career

hohum! just woke up and been thinking what needs to be done today. I having a hard time adjusting to this new schedule. I've been a nocturnal person for several years then suddenly because of a lateral "promotion", im back in a normal schedule.
i promised myself to go back and work out in a regular basis. im buying myself new stuff to force me to keep my promise and sweat a little and maybe a lot. i hope this feb- something or someone can inspire me to make this a habit.

undies

a new blog-a new me..

I do not believe in sharing your inner thoughts like blogs and whatever to strangers. For one, they can use it against you that can cause detrimental damage to you emotionally or physically. But again, thanks to Mother Time that made me more mature on how to accept things nowadays made me decide to create one. This will be my channel to let go all my angst (if there will be), wishful thinking, and what-have-you. To you my dear friend, I thank for coming in. do say hi or hello and do leave a comment. For sure it will be highly appreciated.